Leading pagan author, Lexa Roséan advises on magick, witchcraft, spells, & other occult matters. Here's how it works...If you have a magickal Q, leave a comment or email it. Please ask Q's that can help others too. For more personal psychic help, Lexa is also available for private consultation.
Friday, July 20, 2007
Why do Spells Backfire?
how do you stop spells from backfiring? Everything seems to backfire with me! For example, trying to stop someone lying about me at work turns into me being accused of lying about someone else.
Thanks for your answer.
WD responds...
Often we go about working spells by attempting to control another's thoughts, feelings, or actions. This approach often "backfires" and that's why it is best to focus on ourselves in ritual. For example, you may want to do a protection from gossip spell on yourself instead of trying to tie someone else's tongue. Give it a shot and see if this line of magickal work doesn't bring better results for you.
Friday, July 13, 2007
Happy Friday the 13th

this post is being republished. It was originally part of a Thursday 13 post. (Apr 13 2007)
It is believed that on Friday the 13th...
1. Eve tempted Adam with forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden (which is why the day is unlucky for men).
2. Cain killed his brother Abel on a Friday. (unlucky for siblings.)
3.. Noah's Ark set sail into the great flood (which is why the day has become unlucky for sailors).
4.. G-d toppled the Tower of Babel and caused men to speak in different tongues (which is why people get scared and confused and have trouble communicating on this day.)
5.. The Temple of Solomon was destroyed. (a day of bad luck for Jews).
6. Judas was the thirteenth guest at the Last Supper and
7. Christ died on the cross that same Friday. (a day of bad luck for Christians.)
8. Friday was originally sacred to the Fertility Goddess Frigga or Freya. When the Norse and Germanic tribes converted to Christianity, the Goddess was banished to a mountaintop and called a witch. It is said that every Friday she met with 11 other witches and the Devil (a total of 13) to plan ill fated events for the week ahead for the people who had abandoned worship of her. (bad luck for ex pagans!)
9. Fear of Friday the 13th is called friggatriskaidekaphobia.
10. In Greece, Spain, and Argentina, Not Friday but Tuesday the 13th is believed to be bad luck.
En martes, ni te cases ni te embarques, ni de tu familia te apartes. (on Tuesday, don't get married, don't start a journey, and don't separate yourself from your family).
11. On Friday, October 13, 1307, agents of King Philip IV began arresting the Knights Templar.
12. There are more traffic accidents on Friday the 13th and billions are lost in business because of superstition.
13. Friday the 13th is lucky for the WITCH :) and that luck can rub off so say hi to your local witch today and bring some good luck your way. Can't find a lucky witch to nuzzle up to? Ok, then press some cinnamon powder between your palms for good luck and chew on a bay leaf for protection and to ward off ill will. Drink Earl Grey tea (contains the sacred herb of Bergamot) for safety in travel.
Blessings and happy Friday the 13th!
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Venus Retrograde

Dear Lexa:
Thanks for everything,
Á-J
Dear Á-J
In general, romantic relationships can be strained when the planet of love trips the light fantastic a la Ginger Rogers*, just as communications are strained when Mercury the messenger goes through his backward motion. However, because Venus is transiting through Virgo, a healthy fight in couple's therapy could clear up years of bad air. This will be a great time to get to the bottom of things and figure out what has and what is going wrong and therefore you can prevent future problems. Look out though because as the planet moves back through Leo (Aug 13 - Sep 8), the egos take hold and we must take care not to let pride defeat love.
The saving grace of this retrograde is that when Venus transits through Leo, she will also be conjunct Saturn. This dance with big daddy is very favorable for forming long and stable unions. (Although marriage is not recommended during the retrograde.) The key is to be responsible in relationships and show up for the more serious issues in life.
Here's a magickal life jacket to keep you afloat. Carve your names on a brown candle and anoint with lemon oil and pink glitter. Surround the candle in a circle of dried cranberries and light on Fridays during the retrograde period. Lemon and the color pink are sacred to Venus. Lemon is an oil of love and also used to cleanse and detoxify negative energy. It carries a strong healing vibration. Pink represents love and also stress reduction. Cranberries and brown candles are Saturnine and used to ground a relationship and keep it safe and secure. Bathe in fresh lemon juice and eat dried cranberries to infuse this energy into your auras. These ingredients create a magickal seat belt to protect you as you travel down the detours on that highway of love.
May Goddess bless all your endeavors of the heart with light!
Lexa
p.s. Astrology on the Web has a really accurate, detailed, and positive description of the Venus Retrograde.
*She danced backwards and in heels!

Thursday, July 05, 2007
13 things about Mercury Retrograde
2 Miscommunications abound.
3. Things get lost in the mail.
4. Not a good time to sign contracts or make important decisions.
5. Good time for rewrites or reworking an idea.
6. Lovers fight.
7. Lovers also get back together.
8. Cell phones, computers and other techno toys can go haywire.
9. Not a good time to buy the iPhone! (or any new electronic gadget.)
10. Expect delays in travel or mistakes in airline ticketing. Triple check all plans and reservations during a Mercury Retrograde.
11. Repeat everything important and have others repeat back to you.
12. Mischief abounds.
13. This Mercury retrograde ends on July 9.
Here's a cool Mercury Retrograde Widget to help you get through this cycle.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007
Is it Big Love or Cheating?
my husband lives two doors down with his girlfriend but spends two nights a week here at home. He swears he loves me and wants me to always be here for him. He is my life, my all. What can I do? Please help me!
Lexa responds...
Well, if you switch houses with the neighbors in between, you can all live together like the family on HBO's Big Love. Seriously though, I'm not quite sure how to advise you. He seems clear about what he wants but you don't seem at all clear about what you want. You sound somewhat resigned to the situation. Magick is usually not effective when there is no will or drive behind the ritual. You are not telling me that you want him to leave the girlfriend and be 100% faithful to you. In fact, it sounds like on some level you have accepted the polyamores arrangements. Figure out what YOU want - and then get back to me.
Monday, July 02, 2007
Are Witches Real?
I saw it and it was really amazing. I have always felt that way. I want to get your opinion on something. Several years ago I had a reading by Sylvia Brown. And she told me that i would marry someone by November of 2002 with initials BK, and he would be short and husky with brownish-gray hair. Didn't marry that guy and never meet anyone with those initials. What do you think about Sylvia Brown when she says that witches are not real and are just fakes, I don't feel that way, but just want to know your opinion.
Dear Anon
Well, I don't have much of any opinion on SB. Don't know much about her except that I've seen her a few times on Montel while channel surfing. My impression is that she is pretty careless with the predictions. Just rolls them off the tongue and doesn't seem to ask permission from any angels or Goddess or use any sacred oracle to predict. (I could be wrong about this but from what I've seen, she just talks off the top of her head.) As for witches not being real...that's like saying Jews, Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, or Hindus are not real. We are as real as any other spiritual/religious persons and those who truly worship the Goddess and follow her ways are not fake. Well, there you have it. My humble opinion.
Blessed be
Lexa
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
back 'atcha
I have read a spell on breaking couples up. Say if I want to break a couple up, wouldnt that come back on me 3 fold. I read the spell with a black cloth, black thread, and a glass cup or container, write their names on separate pieces of paper and put it in the glass cup or container on separate sides and put the black clother over the top of the glass and tie with black thread. and stick it in the back of the freezer. I just want to know what you think about it. And would it come back on me 3 fold?
Witch Dr answers...
Monday, June 25, 2007
Isis Unveiled
photos by Tom Zeigler
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Your Cheatin' Heart

Dear Crazy
When tears come down like fallin' rain
While I give to youmay all your magickal endeavors be blessed in light and love
And you give to me
True love, true love
So on and on
It will always be
True love, true love
For you and I have a guardian angel
On high with nothing to do
But to give to you
And to give to me
Love forever true
But to give to you
And to give to me
Love forever true
Love forever true
- Written by Cole Porter
(Recorded by Patsy Cline 8/17/61)
WD
* a note about the menstrual blood. It is well known among the witches that a drop of menstrual blood placed in the morning coffee will keep a man (or a woman) true. However, this must be repeated on a monthly basis and it is considered borderline black magick as it is a way of controlling another individual. The spell is also very powerful and difficult to undo.
Sandcastles for Summer Solstice

Okay then click on the link above and visit this really cool site. It will be even more fun, if you build a sandcastle with the kids. I built this one with my five year old niece. Our original castle was actually a lot bigger at first but we had to prune it down so that we'd have some of the beautiful coastline left to view. (too bad most developers don't keep that in mind as well.) Anyway, the sandcastle site is easy and fun to use. Just point and click to change colors and resize your sandcastle. It's easy and fun and when you are done, you can send ecards of your castle to family and friends. After all this virtual fun, you can browse around and find some help to plan a REAL vacation on some fabulous beach resort. Today is the Summer Solstice and midsummer has officially begun. Go on out and build the sandcastle of your dreams! You can also check out the gallery of sandcastles. There were some pretty cool ones. My favorite was Ghosty's Castle. I think I'll revisit this site with my architect and come up with something really cool.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Thirst for The Waters of Enlightenment
The Seeker
Camel Watch
I posted this film from today's news just as a reminder that the thirst for the waters of enlightenment are REAL and the well so dry that we can even see the physical manifestations of it. Unfortunately, like you, the camels of today's world are also thirsting. They are thirsting for water as you are thirsting for the words and teachings of the Goddess. And the way things are going environmentally, even your cousin may soon have serious problems getting in touch with Mother Nature. I ask that you say some prayers (along with all the other readers) for the Camels in Afghanistan. I ask you to do this because the magick I offer up as a solution to your dilemma, involves the energies of this amazing creature.
In the Tarot, the wisdom and secret teachings of Wicca are represented by the High Priestess card. The High Priestess is also the one who leads the coven and reveals the mysteries.
The Gimel meditation is based in Kabbalah and helps to align you with the energies of the High Priestess card. It brings personal revelation and reveals your own internal store of wisdom as well as revealing the teachings of the Goddess. If you wish to become an initiated witch or a High Priestess yourself, do the Gimel meditation three times within the 28 day lunar cycle. Begin on the new moon, repeat on the full moon, and once again on the dark moon.
Here is the Ritual for the Gimel:
As you ‘spit’ wisdom (or Chochmah) out of your mouth, ask that you be led down a good path in your quest for knowledge of the occult. There are many unsavory characters operating under the guise of Wicca. Ask that you be steered clear of those that abuse the craft. Ask that you be led towards a loving, wise, and empowering coven. So Mote it Be.
For more Kabbalistic meditations and rituals based on the Tarot, check out TarotPower; 22 Keys to Unlocking Magick, Spellcraft, and Meditation.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Haunted Evening
Hosted by Lady Rhea
"To celebrate Gay Pride “Ruby Fruits” is bringing you an unprecedented approach in entertainment to celebrate our unique personalities.
Lady Rhea author and creator of The Enchanted Candle book, and LGBT Wiccan advocate is celebrating Gay Pride with Ruby Fruit’s first “Haunted Evening” open mike. There are millions of ghost stories out there. What is yours?
Your hostess Lady Rhea will be inviting you up to the open mike for ten minutes or less to tell us your ghost story. Lady Rhea will be sharing some of her own personal haunting’s and antidotes to ghosts with you.
Special Guest Psychic Lexa Rosean author of the Supermarket Sorceress Series will be on hand to tell stories and available for readings.
Magickal Realms staff psychics will be available for readings with your loved ones. All readings $1.00 a minute, 10 minute minimum.
Some Haunted Evening, you will see a stranger, you will see them floating, across a crowded room. Then when you look up, you will see that they are not there. To find you are spooked beyond compare! Tell us your story. $5.00 admission fee.
Rubyfruit is located at:
531 Hudson Street, NY NY 10014
That's between W.10 St & Charles St
in world-famous, historic Greenwich Village
Tel: (212) 929-3343
By train:

Monday, June 18, 2007
Spy Who Came into the Cold
This spell will freeze any enemy from harming you
and block his view of what you are up to.
Check out this link to see what Michael Weston uses and watch USA Network's Burn Notice, a new series starting June 28th. See Michael Weston, a CIA Operative on USA Network's new TV series, Burn Notice, show us his skills.
Tarot and Astrology Readings at Rubyfruits
blessed be
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Isis; Goddess of 10,000 Names
Thursday, June 07, 2007
13 on Isis
It is said that the annual Nile flood was caused by a teardrop from the eye of Isis as she mourned the death of Osiris. So powerful was this festival that it is still held sacred by Moslems and called Lelat al-Nuktah. In honor of the upcoming Night of the Teardrop, (June 16) here are 13 of the many names and attributes of the goddess Isis.

2. Giver of all life
3. Mother of the Gods
4. Star of the Sea
5. Great Lady of Magic
6. Oldest of the Old
7. the One who is All
8. Mata-Meri or Mari (yes Mother Mary is a manifestation of Isis!)
9. Destiny
10. Lady of Green Crops
11. Lady of the Words of Power
12. She Who Knows How to Make Right Use of the Heart
13. and lastly an ancient hymn to Isis from V. F. Vanderlip's The Four Greek Hymns of Isidorus and the Cult of Isis
Giver of wealth, Queen of the gods, Lady Hermouthis,
Ruler of All, Good Fortune, Isis of the Great Name,
exalted Deo, Discoverer of all life,
You put Your hand to mighty works of all kinds, so as to give
life and an ordered society to all mankind,
You introduced laws so that there might be a measure of justice,
You revealed sciences so that men might live decently,
You discovered the flowering nature of all fruitful plants.
For You the sky came into being, the whole earth,
the breath of the breezes, the Sun with its welcome radiance.
By Your power the streams of the Nile are all filled full
at the summer season, and its water pours turbulent
over the whole land so that the crop may never fail.
All mortals who live on the limitless earth,
Thracians, Greeks, and foreigners as well,
utter Your Glorious Name which all honor,
each in his own language, each in his own land.
Syrians call You Astarte, Artemis, Nanaea,
the tribes of Lycia call you Queen Leto,
men in Thrace call you Mother of the Gods,
Greeks call you Hera of the lofty throne, and Aphrodite,
kindly Hestia, Rheia, and Demeter.
Egyptians call you Thiouis because You, being One, are all
the other goddesses named by all peoples.
My Lady, I shall not stop hymning your Mighty Power,
Immortal Saviour, goddess of the many names, almighty Isis,
rescuing from war cities and all of their citizens,
men, their wives, possessions and dear children.
All who are held in the destiny of Death, all in bondage,
all who are racked with pain which will not let them sleep,
all men journeying in a foreign country,
all who sail on the great sea in stormy weather,
when ships are wrecked and men lose their lives
all these find salvation if they pray for Your present help.
Hear my prayers, You whose Name has Mighty Power,
be propitious to me and free me from all affliction.

A postscript to this post - thanks to a comment by MeritAset
I was enlightened by the information that the photo above is of Hathor. The traditional Isis (Aset) is crowned with a throne as illustrated in photo on left.
Photo from www.africawithin.com

Wednesday, June 06, 2007
Dona Nobis Pacem

please take a moment to click here
and join witch and author Marion Weinstein in a blessing for World Peace.
Visit Mimi's Peace Globe Gallery
Dona Nobis Pacem
"I do believe in ghosts. I do believe in ghosts."
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
The Night of the Teardrop
This is going to be an amazing event created by my friend Leslie Lowe. She is a painter, psychic, and artist from NY. Leslie moved to New Orleans in the early 90's and returned to NYC after Katrina. If you are in NYC, don't miss this event!!!
Are you a Right Brain Traveler looking for the Ultimate Voyage?
Isis, the Goddess of 10,000 Names, can do anything if you but follow Her Rituals on The Night of the Teardrop
Sat June 16 8 PM
Join Egyptomaniacs Unanimous to celebrate the Rising of the Dog-Star Sirius, marking the Flooding of the Nile.
Concept by Leslie Lowe
Movie Projections by Leslie Lowe and Inbred Hybrid Collective
9PM– Live Music by GEOSONIC -Bill Buchen & Steve Sandberg
$5 Donations graciously accepted
Le Petit Versailles
346 East Houston St. at Ave C F/V train to 2nd Ave, J/M to Delancey
212 529 8815
LPV events are made possible with the support of the New York State Council on the Arts, a state agency
Monday, June 04, 2007
Take a Closer Look at the Galaxy
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Sunday Sermon: Do Witches Worship the Devil?
I have been getting interested in Wicca and i purchased the book you wrote called the encyclopedia of magickal ingredients. i am hoping that wicca isnt something to do with satan or any devil type worship. in this i seeked you so i could get a second opinion on wicca. if this isnt a satan practice then i will be intrested to go further so what i am trying to say is this, could you give me some knowledge on wicca and aitchcraft and give me more info on this magickal practice.
your intrested fan
G Q
Thanks for the question GQ. I encourage you to take the time and watch the instructional video below. Demystifying Paganism dispels the negative stereotypes about Wicca. I don't think I could have put it any better. Bravo Rev. Younger!
GQ also asks...
Would going to the library and checking out books on witchcraft be a good source to learn more and one other weird question is,since i am a boy would i be considered a warlock?
Lexa answers...
Yes, the library is always a great idea but you might also want to see if there are some pagan gatherings in your area so you can experience the energy of the craft and Goddess worship. The word Witch can also be used for men. Many male Wiccans prefer not to use the word "warlock" because during the Inquisition, the warlocks were the ones who named names and betrayed other witches who were then burned at the stake. Yikes!